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More Life in the Years Lyrics and Inspiration Notes Track List: 1. Unraveling - Liz Longley 2. Shine - Jenn Adams 3. Do What I Can - Amy Petty 4. Be Nice To Old People - Jamie Broza 5. Daddy Don't Let Go - Out of Ether 6. If You Don't Remember - Sarah Sample 7. Right There - Kim Richards 8. Squirrels - Colin McGrath 9. Carbon Copy - Joe Cerisano 10. Passage of Time - Sue Brescia 11. It's Hard To Cry (When You Eat A Piece Of Chocolate) - Dave Bastien 12. The Manicure - Phyllis Sinclair 13. Three Quarter Time - Brad Norgart 14. Is It Hot In Here? - Ellen Bukstel 15. More Than He Could Say - Jan Garrett & JD Martin 16. Nothin' But A Number - Mr. Deep Positivity 17. Movies on the Wall - Dan Sirois 18. When The Children Are Gone - Vivien Wolsk Unraveling Writer/Performer: Liz Longley www.lizlongley.com © 2009 Liz Longley Inspiration Notes: This song was inspired by my grandmother, Ave, who has been living with Alzheimer's for over a decade. My family and I recently visited her at her nursing home to celebrate her 84th birthday and it was full of bittersweet moments. Ave was always an avid collector of things like porcelain dolls, pottery and unique artwork. After eighty-four years of leading a beautiful life, it's hard to accept that the one thing she can't collect is her memories. Boxes and baskets of all her old things Porcelain dolls, portrait paintings She swore they'd be worth something They're just gathering dust in my attic somewhere And she's lost in a room where she sits and she stares Her mind as blank as the walls Her memory as vacant as the halls I'm the only daughter of her oldest son I knew her well before her spirit was gone Her life is a thread woven into every part of me And she is unraveling She looks in my eyes and asks me my name And every five minutes I tell her the same She smiles but it's cold and dead And I'm screaming out loud in my head I've tried to pull her back Stories and photographs Of her children who love her Sisters and brothers She can't remember But how could a heart forget? I've been tearing through boxes on nights I can't sleep Searching for memories of who she used to be Shine Writer/Performer: Jenn Adams www.jennadams.com © 2004 White Boxer Music (ASCAP) Inspiration Notes: As I watched the HBO documentary "A Century of Living", I was struck by two women in particular. The first was a small, delicate African American woman, who, in the late 30's, was working for a man who needed help raising his kids and keeping up with household chores. He was called to war and did not return, and there was no one else to raise his children. She was so proud of those boys and you could feel the love and respect for the life she had been given. She made no excuses or complaints - she got a job in a factory and did what she knew was right and had a family to prove it. The second had lost five sons in World War II. She spoke with such pride and elegance for the sacrifice, and the dedication and love for her family was evident and shining brightly. She spoke about being content with her life, a life well lived, and a sacrifice worth giving. I can only imagine what it was like for either of these incredible women. The loss of a child outweighs any other imaginable, but to lose five! And to raise a white man's family as a single black woman in 1940, and do it successfully, was nothing short of a miracle! I was just supposed to keep your house Watch over your children But that was before the war broke out And you were lost on foreign ground They sent a captain pressed and clean Hat in his hand he began to tell me Last night Somewhere near the border So I take comfort in the quiet of the night When the moon is rising over these city light Though I cannot see the stars I can feel you shine So I went down to the factory So many hungry faces to feed We were poor Poor as poor can be She had five sons for the country We only had you In those faces left to me here You do all that you can do The moon was up when we arrived Shining on the stones of Arlington Rows and rows of morning light We never find your name Your oldest boy is a good man He's never been easy but he made his stand He's got your eyes He's got your hands Do What I Can Writer/Performer: Amy Petty www.amypetty.com © 2008 Amy Petty Inspiration Notes: I never imagined that I would find myself in the role of 'caregiver', but when my husband's grandparents needed some extra help, that's just what I became. The occasional trip to the grocery store turned into full-time, round-the-clock care for five years. I definitely never imagined that we would become such close friends, or that I would learn so much about myself in the process. It was the most challenging and most rewarding thing I have ever done. This song is dedicated to my buddy, Bonnie Gene Norrod. She is somebody's mother's mother I am somebody's daughter's daughter And it seems like this circle's turning to me She's a little girl with ages on her I'm an old woman with years before her And it seems like this circle's turning to me And so the story goes And so the story goes I will do what I can I will do what I can I ask her for a memory that I can borrow She asks what I plan to do with her tomorrow And is seems like this circle's turning to me She is not the only one who's feeling younger I am not the only one who's growing stronger And it seems like this circle's turning to me The decades cross right in front of us And I see myself inept Cuz she is somebody's daughter's daughter And I'll be somebody's mother's mother And it sure seems like this circle is turning to me I will do what I can I will do what I can I will do what I can I will do what I can Be Nice To Old People Writer/Performer: Jamie Broza www.goodmoodrecords.com ©2004 Elliot Music Co. Inc. (ASCAP) Inspiration Notes: This song was originally written to make kids more appreciative of their grandparents, however, it has also found a warm reception with those same grandparents. It helps kids realize that all the things they do, old folks used to do too, and probably better… or so they'll say! I hope this inspires kids to look at their grandparents or older caregivers in a whole new light. Be nice to old people They used to be young They used to tease siblings To stick out their toungues To stay up past midnight To giggle, to yell Don't believe me? Just ask 'em They've stories to tell Be nice to old people They used to get scared They'd hide in their sheets From the monsters who dared To make funny noises In closets, on stairs Don't believe me? Just ask 'em If they got nightmares Though grandma gets tired And sometimes moves slow She prob'ly ran faster Than you long ago She prob'ly dug earthworms Made her room a mess Walked into a party With mud on her dress Though grandpa gets grumpy And sometimes seems hazy He prob'ly played baseball Went sledding, went crazy! He prob'ly once thought His own parents were dopey Was stubborn, and careless And sloppy and mopey Be kind to old people They sometimes forget That when they were young They - liked getting wet! They'd play in the bath Water splashed everywhere Avoided shampoos Loved to pull sister's hair And when they were young They would get into trouble Not eat their green beans Turn their crackers to rubble It's hard to believe but I tell you it's true There's very few things That old folks did not do Be kind to old people 'cause Once they were little Round, rolly babies Not creaky and brittle They used to be kissed Forty-two times an hour And huggled, and snuggled And called "wildflower" And when they were young They would wish on a star They'd wish for a horse For a puppy, a car They'd wish they were older But now that they're wise They wish on the stars That they find in your eyes Daddy Don't Let Go Writer: Marcia Pleshek, James Russell, Larry Johnson Performer: Out Of Ether www.outofether.com © 2008 Out of Ether Music (SESAC) Inspiration Notes: This song is a tribute to Marcia's father, who is one of the kindest and most courageous persons we have ever known. He inspired and encouraged every one around him, even through radical and invasive surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation to fight cancer. As fathers with daughters themselves, fellow songwriters Johnson and Russell knew this song was very special. They also both had mothers who had cancer. Sadly, Johnson's mother died of a brain tumor before she had the opportunity to hear the song. It is our sincere hope that this song provides you with the inspiration and strength to hold on to hope even when all appears lost. Pig tails, scraped heels, first day no training wheels Deep breath, third try, I look up and start to cry Daddy don't let go I'm so afraid please hold me close I can't do this on my own Please Daddy, don't let go White dress, gold band, it's time Daddy takes my hand I smile, he knows, this aisle leads to my new home Through life's uncertainty, I will always be Daddy's little girl unconditionally And as the years go by through this circle we call life The tears and sacrifice teach taught me What love truly means Phone call, 3 am, first flight to Galveston Bedside, Daddy turns for worse, on my knees I pray these words If You Don't Remember Writer/Performer: Sarah Sample www.sarahsample.com © 2007 Sarah Sample (ASCAP) Inspiration Notes: After I graduated college with a degree in music therapy, I had the privilege to work with several elderly populations with diagnoses from Dementia to Parkinson's disease. When my Grandfather was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, I felt moved to write this song. My Grandfather was a father figure as I was growing up, and to know and love someone personally affected by this disease has been a struggle to witness. I wanted the song to capture where I would want my heart to be if my partner was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. If you don't remember I'll just remind you If you tell the story four times Well don't worry, because it still sounds brand new Don't worry because it still sounds new If you don't remember my name I'll still stay here, just the same If your mind has been clouded over Your heart knows truth that just can't be ignored Yes, your heart knows truth that can't be ignored When you leave, promise me that we're not through When you leave, go and save a place for me and you If you don't remember my face I'll still stay here with you in this place I said "yes" to you years ago I say "yes" today and "yes" tomorrow I say "yes" today and "yes" tomorrow Right There Writer/Performer: Kim Richards www.myspace.com/sanctuarywithin © 2004 Kim Richards Inspiration Notes: This song was inspired by a very genuine, gentle man named Ken who was semi-retired but worked part time polishing floors in the critical care unit at the hospital where I worked. He had the ability to find joy in the smallest of things - like polishing the floors - and his joy was contagious. He greeted every single person that passed by him with a sincere comment that never failed to put a smile on their face. He always made time to visit with patients and his compassion for them was so genuine. He did more healing in that hospital than anyone I know... he healed people's spirits. This song is dedicated to Ken, the Picasso of floor polishers! He's just going about his business Making those dull floors shine No one seems to notice him Cause no one's got the time He carries himself so proudly Stopping every now and then To admire those floors he's finished Before he starts again And what he don't know is he's been touching People everyday He's been changing lives with his smiling eyes As he takes the time to say A friendly "hi" to each passerby Well, he's not even aware That he's touching a life in a single moment, right there There's Mrs. G in the corner room I hear they've put her there to die Those walls are more unbearable As time passes by But as he comes around the corner He stops and chats a while It's become a daily ritual She looks forward to with a smile Well it only takes one kind gesture to show you care You can change an entire world in just a moment Right there, right there People hurrying past him Caught up in their world of me Too blinded by distraction To take the time to see How he offers a loving gesture To his tired and shriveled friend Who's forgotten what his name is But he remembers the touch of a hand Squirrels Writer/Performer: Colin McGrath www.colinmcgrath.com 2007 Colin McGrath Inspiration Notes: This song is a story about a man I met when I lived in San Francisco and worked at The Strybing Arboretum. Everyday he would be out in the park feeding the squirrels and calling them to him by name, as though they were his pets. I saw something inspiring in his simple ritual of generosity, and he was getting something out of it too - feeling needed by these little creatures who befriended him. It made me realize that it's important for everyone as they age to feel that their time has meaning, even if it's in something as simple as this. My day was done My friend and I left work and we were walking Home through the park The magnolias were in bloom, it was spring The breeze smelled fine As the sky got dark We heard a voice calling From far away A man's feeding the squirrels And he's calling them by name He was yelling, "squirrels, squirrels Come here squirrels" And low and behold They'd come and eat right from his hand Everybody has got to have a way Of keeping the time From slipping away He's been out there Everyday since he retired With a bag of nuts That he buys from the shop He comes at dusk He used to come before But the cops in the park They asked him to stop He said "sometimes I get upset Cause of those kids that come around here Making noise, causing trouble All drunk on beer But you seem like a nice guy And she seems alright too" And as he talked a little squirrel Began to crawl up on his shoe I said everybody has got to have a way Of keeping the time from slipping away Carbon Copy Writer/Performer: Joe Cerisano www.cerisano.com © 1996 Outta' the Woods Music Inspiration Notes: I wrote this song to honor my dad and show my appreciation for the lesson and values he taught me. As I began to write it I realized just how much alike we are and how my son is just like us too. I think it's a common realization that as we mature we begin to see how traits pass on from generation to generation, and more importantly, how we have a responsibility to honor and pass on the lessons and values we learned. Dirty hands and dirty shoes He always had the swing-shift blues Deep in his eyes Forever grateful for what he got He never really had a lot But he never realized Everyday we'd live with the danger That he might not come home alive But a man's got to feed his family Even if it means workin' at the bottom of a coal mine Well the older I get The more I understand I'm a carbon copy of my old man Recap tires on his pickup truck Always breakin' down and full of rust Somehow we made it through Now the mines are shut down and my dad's gone But his memory and what he taught me lives on And it still rings true I saw the love that he shared with my mother How they made it through the good and the bad How they never gave up on each other Even with what little they had. Well now time passes and life goes on And now I have a son of my own And my love for him runs forever deep Cause when I look into his eyes I see my daddy and me Passage Of Time Writer/Performer: Sue Brescia www.suebrescia.com © 2007 Sue Brescia/Gentle Spirit Records (BMI) Inspiration Notes: This song came to me immediately after taking my mother to one of her doctor's appointments. While she was being examined, she looked up at me and at that very moment I realized, the tables have turned, the passage of time has taken place. It was my turn to take care of her. This experience also heightened my awareness of the mortality of my parents and reminded me to cherish every moment I have with them. Now let me tell you a story Slip into a haze from the past When life was carefree and easy And days were as long as they last The world seemed to be a better place Filled with an innocent bliss Warmed by the scent of my mother's caress As she sent me to bed with a kiss Back then my mother would tell me Not to wish my young life away Cause the passage of time comes too quickly And you'll miss the beauty of the day Now as I stand in this moment And savor the remnants of time Life passed me by with fair warning And vanished before my own eyes Which brings me back to this story Pardon me if I reminisce As I take my mother by her hand Send her off to bed with a kiss It's Hard To Cry (When You Eat A Piece Of Chocolate) Writer: Dave Bastien Performer: Susan Van Ham © 2009 Dave Bastien www.m4ac.org Inspiration Notes: This song was inspired by Irene Schmitt. We were driving to visit relatives and were surprised to see an elderly woman struggling to shovel a foot of snow, so we stopped to help. She hadn't eaten in two days and said Meals on Wheels told her they couldn't come unless her driveway was cleared, so she lied and told them it was, and then hurried outside to shovel. She's an incredible woman with lots to offer the world but she's shut in, like so many others. She said one day that it's amazing the kinds of physical setbacks an elderly person can deal with, but the loneliness is tough. Then she added, "I keep a jar of little wrapped chocolates in the kitchen and if I ever feel like crying, I go get one, because it's hard to cry when you eat a piece of chocolate." Loneliness is one of the biggest problems our elderly face. It leads to depression and contributes to the fact that the highest suicide rates of any age group occur among persons aged 65 years and older. It's a sad song, but it's the reality of what many elderly face. I hope it inspires at least a few people to reach out to an elderly person and ask, "are you lonely?" Sometimes you say you want to end your life When you feel like you're forgotten and alone Time passing by cuts like a dull and rusty knife My how the years have flown And there's no one there when you suffer in the silence No one to hold you when it's cold No one to talk to when there's somethin' to say No way to stop from growing old The mirror shows the lines from the years that escaped But the tears are held inside You say it's hard to cry when you eat a piece of chocolate So you take a bite and let the pain subside But it hurts sometimes When you fear you're near the end Yes it hurts sometimes In those lonely nights you spend It hurts sometimes When there's not enough to eat It hurts sometimes To see this happen to a heart so sweet So you hold on to hope there's a better day ahead A little light will shine on you One last chance to make a little difference Before your life is through It hurts sometimes It hurts sometimes Yes, It hurts sometimes To see this happen to a heart so sweet The Manicure Writer/Performer: Phyllis Sinclair www.phyllissinclair.com © 2008 Phyllis Sinclair Inspiration Notes: This song was inspired by my aunt who was a commercial cleaning woman in the city of Winnipeg, and one of those shadowy figures moving across office tower windows late at night. The years of hard work made her hands cracked, dry and gnarled. She didn't drive a car and always caught the last bus of the night home, shopping bags in hand. Her son is a successful doctor thanks to her dedication to family and years of hard work to support him through university. After performing this song at a recent concert, a woman whose hands also reflected years of hard work came to me and said, "Thank you so much for that song, I'll never be ashamed of my hands again." That's precisely why I write. I am so grateful to my aunt, my mother and my grandmother for their fine example of hard work, determination and spirit of humility and gratefulness. We owe a lot to the working women of their generation. Standing in the check out line She pulled her cart up next to mine She asked if I would help her to unload My hands they just don't work the same They're stiff and crooked, but I won't complain These hands have toiled and labored to get me by It's the least that I can do to show The thanks I have and the debt I owe It's taken a life of living to get my hands to look like this Back in days when I was young When little arms around me clung They dried a thousand tears from crying eyes They cleaned the dirt from tumbled knees Spent countless hours shelling garden peas And they built the house we lived in at the time They scrubbed a few walls, pots and pans Coined the phrase of dish pan hands It's taken a life of living to get my hands to look like this It's taken a life of living to get my hands to look like this Leathered, cracked and wrinkled from working hard, I must admit I know they're not too much to look upon Never soaked them in a fine salon It's taken a life of living to get my hands to look like this Lost the farm in '63, took a job in town at the factory I assembled parts til my hands were thick and numb The had their knocks, their bumps and blows But they bought the farm that the bank foreclosed And a horse who taught the kids all how to ride They had their share of cuts and scars but they taught the value of working hard It's taken a life of living to get my hands to look like this Now you know about these hands I hope you don't misunderstand I've given them the best care that I could Though they've never had a life of ease Never pampered, I can guarantee They're the reason that I stand here with my pride My life has been their manicure Shaped by service through the years It's taken a life of living to get my hands to look like this Life In 3/4 Time Writer: Brad Norgart www.myspace.com/bradnorgart Performer: Ronnie Kimball www.reachhigher.com/RonnieKimball.html © 2009 Brad Norgart (BMI) Inspiration Notes: I wrote this song to honor all the couples who are loving and resilient enough to grow old together. It's been said, "life is a dance", and this story is a memorable waltz through time from a high school prom to an assisted-living home. The shooting stars observed by the young couple at the end of the song represent both their lives ahead of them and the lives of the older couple the story is about. He's opening the lid Of a trunk that seems hid In a closet behind some old clothes He's surprised when he finds Her prom dress inside And a program with a flower pressed closed Then he opens the pages Of that magical night When a young man laid it all on the line, and asked "If your dance card's still open Would you please let the next dance be mine?" He never thought he could love her More than he loved her that night He'd never seen her so pretty There were stars in her eyes Their feet kept on shuffling Though the music had died And the whole room stood silent As that couple waltzed by All alone on the dance floor Life moving in 3/4 time As he puts things away He remembers that day The first time he'd held her close While in her garden she stands With a flower in her hands Like the one from years ago Then the backdoor squeaks open And he's there by her side And that old man tries an old line "If your dance card's still open Would you please let the next dance be mine?" It was like they were floating What a magical sight He said she never looked prettier Stars returned to her eyes Their feet kept on shuffling As the day turned to night And a neighbor stood silent As they slowly waltzed by All alone in the backyard Life moving in 3/4 time As the moment unwound They started to talk Of the secret they found They'd dance to slow down Now he's shuffling his feet Behind a walker he needs In an old folks home they reside Down the hallway he squeaks In every open door he peeks Nods his head at the neighbor inside When he reaches their room Where she lies sick in bed The nurse motions to him and says "She's been whispering 'where are you' The last dance is about to begin". So he lies down beside her Wraps his arms 'round her tight Their hearts beating in motion To a birds song outside He said she never looked prettier Just then the songbird took flight And as it's music fell silent In his arms, she died Her last words were, she'd see him again On some magical night Then it happened one winter God said it was time So through the snow and the ice He shuffled outside He searched all the heavens Til he caught her eye And a strolling young couple Stood amazed at the sight Two shooting stars side-by-side The lover's thought "What a magical night." Falling in love all over With life moving in 3/4 time Is It Hot In Here, Or Is It Me? Writers: Ellen Bukstel/Nancy Wuerzburger Performer: Ellen Bukstel www.ellenbukstel.com © 2003 Ellen Bukstel & Nancy Wuerzburger Inspiration Notes: I'm a 56 year young songwriter going through what I call career menopause. This song hits all the hot buttons of women going through life changes, and has their partners nodding and clapping in wholehearted agreement. It's about hot flashes, mood swings, and sex drive in the universal language of song. I'm using a bit of humor to turn up the heat on menopause. Well, my hormones have been raging for quite a while I know that I am aging so I gonna go in style One minute I am laughing, the next one I'm in tears Cause the magazines I'm reading are confirming all my fears Is it hot in here I asked or is it me My family thinks I'm crazy as can be Well my thermostat is broken, it feels like 103 Is it hot in here, or is it me? I saw my friend Susan just the other day Said that she was feeling exactly the same way With hot flashes all the time, I said I'm on the verge She said "honey, that's not a hot flash, it's really a power surge!" Well, the mood swings and the weight gain are making me irrate Progesterone and Estrogen will help me lubricate They say that soybeans can reduce the rate of heart desease And Osteoperosis!!...could you spell that for me please? They say that my libido is likely to decline...NOT! Insomnia and night sweats make me tired all the time There is designer estrogen.. the doctors could prescribe But recent test are showing that the rats did not survive This is not a mid life crises or empty nest syndrome It's just my body changing into something quite unknown They used to call us crazy, but never knew the cause Well it's our right of passage and it's called menopause! Well my thermostat is broken No truer words were spoken Is it hot in here, I'm just not clear, please crank up the AC Is it hot in here I asked or is it me! Yeah! More Than He Could Say Writer/Performer: Jan Garrett www.Garrett-Martin.com ©1999 Foolchild Music (ASCAP) Inspiration Notes: I grew up with a '50's dad. He loved John Wayne Westerns, and flew the American flag on holidays. He was a solid citizen, a good provider for the family, and a stern disciplinarian because he thought that's what fathers were supposed to do. He had some fun quirks and a decent sense of humor when properly egged on, but was never effusive when it came to showing tender emotions. I never remember a time when he came out and said "I love you" to any of us kids as we were growing up. Fortunately he got mellower with age (and the onslaught of his adorable twin granddaughters). This is my love song to him, and all the Dads. Evolution! We were always kind of scared of him, he was strong & handsome And he made it clear who wore the pants in the family Everybody tried to please him, we fought for his attention Then we would shine like twinkling stars Don't you wonder who we are But he was just too far away to see Our captain sailed us sternly through the storm He kept us safe, if maybe not so warm His silence might have kept his kids at bay But I think he loved us more than he could say He wasn't much of a talker, so Mom would have to tell us How proud he was of each of us, and how he really cared He was busy taking care of things, and we were busy leaving Now all the king's horses from way back when Can't quite put us together again But heaven knows we do the best we can Now, every empire has its rise and fall In time the harshest tyrants fade away He never said "I love you" that I recall But after all, it was more than he could say I drove down for the weekend, he was glad to see me He said, "Your Mom, you know, is kinda slow, it's hard to get around But we appreciate your coming, we know you keep so busy We hope the girls are doing fine Tell them to come by some time We'd love to see you all next time around Well, every empire has its rise and fall In time the harshest borders fade away I never said, "I love you" that I recall But after all is said and done I love you more than I can say Nothin' But A Number Writer: James McBride Performer: Mr. Deep Positivity www.mrdeeppositivity.com © Copyright 2009 James McBride Inspiration Notes: This song was inspired by my 83 year old grandmother named Laura. Although she is along in years, she still leads a full life, lives independently, regularly attends church and is always cheerful. Not only that, she's always helping others and is a blessing to everyone she knows. She's always been a positive role model to me and truly shows that 'Age is Nothing but a Number' by living her life to the fullest. My hope for this song is that it inspires seniors everywhere to continue to enjoy their lives, no matter what their age. Age is nothin' but a number, keep moving till you're six feet under This song's for the elderly, enjoy your life till you rest in peace When you move them old bones you might hear a pop Might use a walker cause you're scared to drop But keep it moving no matter what Cause age is nothin' but a number Remember life is what you make it So make it the best everyday you're waking Keep your mind focused on being elated Like wine your getting finer as you're aging Your hands may be shaking hair all grey and Your hearing decaying, it's OK man Enjoy every day and count your blessings It's your time to shine no time for stressing You can stand still when you're eternally resting Til then enjoy life and keep on stepping Be reflecting on the good memories And keep on jamming like those old melodies You may walk with a cane, have arthritis pain Forget what's in your brain, hunched back like Notre Dame Don't cry or complain that will make you go insane Instead maintain serenity in your frame Enjoy everyday cause it might be your last Recall memories that make you smile so you laugh Don't live in the past, just live for today Give and lift another when they're in dismay You'll brighten up their day when you live this way And bliss comes back to you like a boomerang You can do your thing no matter what your age You're free to roam the earth, you're not locked in a cage Relish this phase of your life with zeal Tell your mind that good is how you feel Adore each moment that new days reveal I pray your life is full of a love that's real Movies On The Wall Writer/Performer: Dan Sirois www.dansirois.com © Copyright 2009 Dan Sirois Inspiration Notes: After an evening of viewing reel after reel of old home movies, I was overwhelmed at the wave of wonderful childhood memories that washed over me. It left me wondering how my parents did it all - filling a house with 9 children, surviving the tough times, the chaos and tears, the list goes on - but the movies answered all my questions. They were loaded with images of a family full of life, love, support, celebration and LOTS of laughter. We never seemed to have a lot, yet now I see we had it all! Wake up in the mornin' and I'm starin' at my face The lines keep cutting deeper and get harder to erase Last night washes over me like a gentle waterfall I was soaking in the memories Watching movies on the wall Flashback Christmas morning 1963 We're swimming thru the gifts that seem to flow out from the tree There's my mother laughing, and the kids all look so small I shake my head and wonder how my parents did it all In the movies on the wall Here's my sister's graduation, a smiling cap and gown Standing proud and waving to the clicking of the sound The old projector wheels keep rollin' like a steady long lost friend That helps me to remember all the best Of way back when We pulled homemade kites with stingray bikes, barefoot fancy free And fish all day down Hussies Pond, just my brothers and me We never seemed to have a lot, now I see we had it all Oh the sweetest childhood memories I recall In the movies on the wall Now my life is in the middle of what was and what will be I may never be a wealthy man, but I'm rich with family One thing that I noticed, there's not a single frame Of the man behind the camera, you may never know his name But when I think about it, he had the best view of us all When he captured all the best years of our lives In the movies on the wall The movies on the wall Movies on the wall When The Children Are Gone Writer/Performer: Vivien Wolsk www.myspace.com/vivwolsk © 2007 Vivien Wolsk (BMI) Inspiration Notes: It seems that many couples wake up one day and find themselves without children at home and are suddenly left to find each other again. I am 68 years old and have been writing songs most of my life. This particular song explores the effect on my relationship with my husband after our experience of raising three children and having them grow up and leave home. It comes from my own personal experience, yet I know many others struggle with this as well. It poses the questions and offers the possibility of renewed love and intimacy that empty-nested couples face. When the children are gone And we sit at the window Looking out at the feet passing by When the children are gone And there's only you and I All the years that we wished For these moments of peace Can they now become more than a bore When the children are gone Will we love each other more When the children are gone And we lie down together Reaching out for the closeness We thought was once there Will we find something left Besides cartons of long out-grown dreams And sweet memories of them we can share When the children are gone Will we look at the space left behind And go on as before Or will we wish that we'd given them more When the children are gone When the children are gone Will we say our goodbyes And go on no more wise than before Or have we got some surprises in store When the children are gone Will we turn to each other For the warmth of a lover Can it be we'll discover What we dreamed all along Can a lullabye become a love song When the children are gone |
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